TRUST YOUR INTUITION WHEN DATING

The devil can be charming, persuasive, and manipulative; they often know the right things to say and do to get you to like them. Nobody becomes this way from one day to the next; this is years of repetitive routine. Most of them, from an early age, come from a very dysfunctional and broken home. As a result, they began to adapt to trauma or abuse to cope with their parents' condition or mindset. Most of these people have been subjected to abuse, aggression, rape, violence etc. Therefore, at a young age, they were taught to hide it, which is why they have no remorse at the thought of lying right to your face. They’ve been taught that hiding things are okay. The worst part is they know what they're doing is wrong, but it doesn't stop them in any way from doing it. Consequently, the pursuit of getting away with something is like a reward for them, or making them feel superior to you. They have become opportunists and are only looking for people they can convince. Love is not their driving force, it is sexual pleasure, and they have become so desensitized that one sexual partner is not enough. As the great philosopher Snoop Dog put it, "you can't make a hoe a housewife".

You need time to get to know someone. They are on their best behaviour at the beginning of a relationship; sometimes it is difficult to tell what kind of person you are dealing with. At first sight, everything can seem perfect. Then you begin to notice small inconsistencies, you ignore them because inside, you hope that this person is the right one. Don't ignore the red flags, that's what you have done in the past and it has gotten you nowhere. I only know because you are reading this. Your intuition looks more deeply into the energy of the person... their soul, as opposed to just the picture they portray. People can paint the picture that they want, but they cannot change the essence of who or what they are. Listen to your intuition; it is your divine higher self that looks after your best interests. For we are all damaged, you can tell who's actually trying to remedy their past trauma and be a better soul. Nothing in this world is flawless, even the best of relationships require commitment and work. It's a conscious decision every day to be loyal, truthful, monogamous, and unwavering to a single soul.

Based on my own experience, even when the other soul is on a spiritual journey and began to remedy their past trauma that doesn't mean they can't or won't return to old behaviours or characters. Just be mindful and communicate openly so that no one adds to the trauma. Always follow your heart, not desire, not lust, not what benefits your life, except Love. Because in the end, that's what we're all looking for, to be loved unconditionally as we navigate our healing process. No one can take your journey, but you, and nobody can heal you except you. I wish each of you gorgeous mfn soulz the best of changes and send you my love and my light.

-Philip S. Wathen,

(Dope Mfn Soul)